November 17, 2012

Personal Childhood Web


My mom
Haeni Aliecia Miller Young, Mom, Mommy, Mrs. Young- Haeni as I now affectionately call her. Where shall I start for such a beautiful soul? My mom has been my rock, guardian, shield, and protector, my everything. She has been an educator for the past 30 something years, she encouraged me, she ensured I got a good education, she ensured I was well rounded and she has influenced me in finalizing my decision in pursuing my career. My mom and I did not always get along, I was somewhat of an introvert and did not like to talk to anyone, but whenever my mom saw something wrong she would come to my room and close the door and talk, usually this is how I would relay information as to what was wrong with me at the time. As I grew older and made my move to Japan, I have realized that I simply cannot do without her- thank God for Skype! I am not going to write an epistle but I am sure I could, my mom has taught me the definition of hard work that is how you reap success. I love my mommy.

My Dad
I had to do my parents separately even though they have been married for some 30 odd years; they have influenced my life in different ways. My dad is and always will be my protector, I am the definition of dad’s little girl. My dad always made sure I had my educational material and even as I pursue this degree, it was his second question “So do you have your textbooks, do you need any textbooks”. My father loves to read, he has a myriad of books; I can hardly recall not seeing my father reading.  My dad encouraged me in school, whenever I had swimming classes he would try to leave work a little early so he could watch me try to “swim”, more like splashing in the water, but I enjoyed those days.  My dad loves his children unconditionally; I admire and respect him so much. I sent him a picture some weeks ago of “Daddy thanks for being my listener, hero, financial support, mentor, friend, chauffeur” he has been all of that and more! Love my daddy.





Auntie Adell
My auntie has been in the education sector for many years over 40 I believe, she has always checked on my educational progress and has offered my financial support. Nevertheless, more importantly she has helped me in maintaining good grades and a high standard for life.  We also both share a love for travel and love to share our stories; of course, she has more stories than I do.  I salute her for being such a great influence in my life.

My First Grade Teacher- Mrs. Monique
Many years ago, I entered elementary school, a young, frail child going into a child with about 40 other kids and Mrs. Montique made me feel like I was one of her children that she birthed. As soon as I read the assignment, her name immediately came to mind. Even though Mrs. Montique had some 40 odd children to teach as first graders, she looked after each one of us, I do not think it anyone had any special treatment to speak of but she took care of us. She made sure we ate, she took her time to explain problems, and she scolded us when we were wrong, but she was a caring human being, and I can clearly remember her now, as if it were yesterday.

My Bestie
Dwight, Dwiggy as I like to call him has been in my life for about 5 years, but even though he has not been in my life from age one, he is my lifetime friend. He encourages me; he ensures that I have my head on straight and that I keep focused on the task. He has been a rock and in doing this assignment, I immediately recognized him as someone who has influenced my life greatly. Everyone needs a friend for his or her lifetime. He always tells me to “do it, get it done” simply put, but helps me to keep focus. 

1 comment:

  1. Kalissa,

    What an awesome support system. Honestly, how sad of me, I never even thought to put my husband who is my best friend. I was thinking childhood. Oh well! I think it's awesome that you are so close to you dad. It sounds like your parents are incredibly supportive. What made you want to leave them and move to Japan?

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